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Learn more about the role of relapse in alcohol addiction recovery, how to avoid it and how it may help you to stay sober in the long term as well as the effectiveness of abstinence in addiction treatment.
A lot of addiction recovery is focused on avoiding relapse after treatment, so it’s important to understand exactly what a relapse is.
When someone relapses, they return to the behaviours that they have been attempting to avoid.
In terms of drug and alcohol addiction, this can mean beginning to use these substances again despite the desire to stop.
A relapse can be short or long-term, and many people experience multiple relapses as they attempt to remain sober.
While many people view relapse as a bad thing, it can be a very normal and even potentially helpful part of recovery.
This is because it can show you the aspects of your recovery plan that need to be strengthened and helps you to see that even if you stumble along the way, it is possible to pick yourself back up and keep trying.
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Many people who experience alcohol addiction have also experienced several personal challenges which may have contributed to the addiction.
As a result, these challenges can also lead to a relapse.
During your addiction treatment, you will learn new and healthy ways to cope with stress, triggers and difficult emotions.
But even with the best of intentions, you may not react to each situation perfectly and may experience one or more relapses.
Remember, a relapse does not mean that you are a failure.
It just means that you may still be holding on to behaviours and patterns that are unhealthy and that you may need to tweak your recovery plan.
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A relapse does not usually happen suddenly.
Instead, the factors that can lead to relapse will build gradually over time. A relapse is often a shift in attitude or behaviour that can eventually lead to the act of drinking alcohol.
Many people who relapse will initially attempt a controlled drinking session, but this can very easily spiral out of control.
A large amount of research has been conducted on alcohol addiction treatment, relapse rates and abstinence.
While some of these figures may feel daunting, they also show that relapse does not have to be the end of your recovery journey.
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Depending on the type of addiction treatment you receive, you may be required to practice abstinence when it comes to drugs and alcohol. [5]
This is when you do not use alcohol, drugs or any other addictive substances. Abstinence is a big commitment, and many people feel overwhelmed by the idea, but it is a very effective way to recover from an addiction.
In the majority of cases, we will only refer you to rehab clinics and treatment programmes that focus on abstinence.
This is because we believe here at Rehab 4 Alcoholism that abstinence is the most effective form of addiction treatment.
If you are recovering from alcohol addiction, you may have heard the terms ‘abstinence’ and ‘moderation’ used.
But what exactly does this mean?
When you are abstinent, you completely avoid alcohol and other addictive substances.
This means that you do not use tobacco, cannabis or any other drugs. Some people also avoid caffeine and other addictive behaviours such as gambling.
Choosing moderation means that you will continue to drink alcohol but with strict limits placed on your consumption of this substance.
This may mean that you allow yourself to have two drinks per week, for example, or that you only drink alcohol on special occasions.
Managing and regulating your alcohol intake can be extremely difficult when you are trying to recover from an addiction.
As a result, while moderation may appear to be the easier choice as it still allows you to drink alcohol, abstinence can make your recovery easier.
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Choosing abstinence in addiction recovery comes with many benefits.
While it can be a more difficult decision to make, abstinence can make your recovery simpler in the long term.
There will be fewer temptations, as you will not keep alcoholic drinks in the house and will also not be tempted to drink more than your limit.
It can be easy to lose control of your alcohol use when you are addicted to this substance, so deciding to avoid it completely can be easier than attempting to limit yourself.
Abstinence also drastically reduces your risk of relapse.
If you tell yourself that you are not going to drink at all, no matter what, this clear-cut decision can remove the temptation to reach for alcohol in times of stress and hardship.
It also makes it easier to set recovery goals. Instead of having to decide on limits, you can simply say, ‘I will no longer drink alcohol.’
Finally, choosing abstinence from alcohol can make it easier to recover from addiction as your brain and body are not in constant battle with each other.
Alcohol can cause physical changes to occur in your brain, which makes you more likely to remain addicted.
The only way to heal these changes is to refrain from drinking alcohol rather than allowing yourself to drink smaller amounts.
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As discussed earlier in this article, a relapse does not usually happen suddenly. It is a process that can happen gradually over time.
Some researchers have concluded that there are three distinct stages to a relapse, and knowing what to look out for can help you to catch a potential relapse and prevent it from happening.
These are known as an emotional relapse, a mental relapse and a physical relapse.
The three stages of relapse are explained in more detail below:
During this stage, the thought of drinking alcohol may not even be on your mind. However, you may be struggling without even realising it.
You may be emotionally ‘checking out’ of recovery by withdrawing from support groups, not expressing your emotions, failing to take care of yourself or focusing on other people and their problems instead of your own.
Catching yourself and reflecting on your feelings can help to get you back on track and prevent you from moving into the second stage of relapse.
Many people describe this stage of relapse as an inner battle. You may have the desire to drink alcohol but struggle to keep your urges in check.
This is when you may begin to feel nostalgic for your former behaviours. You may miss using alcohol, fantasise about drinking, get back in touch with old drinking friends or even actively begin planning a relapse.
It can help to imagine a scenario in which you use alcohol that includes the consequences of these actions. Instead of looking at it with rose-tinted glasses, think about the feelings of guilt and sadness and self-hatred that often follow a binge or relapse.
If you do not address the warning signs of an emotional relapse and a mental relapse, you are at risk of experiencing a physical relapse.
This is when you actively begin to use alcohol again.
Remember, even if you have already started drinking, it is never too late to seek help.
Reach out to a trusted friend, family member, counsellor or support group and share your emotions, and they will help you to regain control and get back on track.
Call our addiction support line on 0800 111 4108 for more help.
Although relapse is a part of addiction recovery, it does not have to be inevitable.
There are many things that you can do to reduce your chances of experiencing a relapse. These techniques can also help you to feel more comfortable and confident in your recovery.
Remember that recovery from addiction is a lifelong process.
Do not expect to be fully healed as soon as you arrive home from rehab – you will need to continue to put in the work to achieve long-term recovery.
It’s common to feel that your addiction treatment has failed if you relapse and even that you need to start the whole process over again.
But relapse is anything but a failure. It’s a very common part of the treatment process and can be used to help you achieve success in the future.
Experts have characterised addiction as a chronic relapsing brain disease. It isn’t your fault.
It simply means that you need to make some changes to your recovery. This may mean attending more support group sessions, finding regular counselling or switching from moderation to abstinence.
Take a close look at your treatment and find out where the holes are. Were you healthily dealing with stress? Did something trigger you? Did you believe that willpower alone is the key to recovery?
If you believe that you would benefit from additional treatment after a relapse, such as a supervised detox or further counselling, then by all means, seek professional help.
Just remember that you are not a failure and that relapse is merely a stepping stone towards long-term recovery.
Call our addiction support line on 0800 111 4108 for more help.
[2] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3052346/
[4] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3674771/